You want to have family devotions because you know that
devotions are a way to keep your family connected and learn Bible truths
together. But what about time constraints and busy schedules? What if they just
bore your kids and lose their original intent? Listed below are some ways of
making the most of your time together and keeping the whole family ready to
come back for more!
Tip 1: Do not make devotions boring. Make
them lively and inviting. If the weather is nice, get out of the house. Have
devotions in different places in the house, and not the same place every time.
Tip 2: Do not make your devotions too long.
Rambling on and on is not an effective way to keep your kid's attention. Get to
the point.
Tip 3: Use object lessons for devotions.
Having things that your family can feel and hold will really liven things up.
For instance, if you are doing a devotion on Noah and the Flood, use stuffed
animals, fill a tupperware bowl with water and have a small boat to float on
it. Use your imagination!
Tip 4: Be knowledgeable about the devotion.
The devotion will be more enticing if you flow with your words. Stumbling and
checking back to references can become frustrating to those listening to you.
Give yourself time to prepare the devotion ahead of time.
Tip 5: Make devotions at a routine time.
Whether you have daily or weekly devotions, it is a good idea to make them at
the same time. This way family members will know when to expect them and clear
their calendars for that special time. Making devotions at erratic times will
cause friction in the family when not everyone can attend. Avoid that!
Tip 6: Get the family involved in devotions.
Let the kids pick out a topic they are interested in or have everyone place
topics in a paper bag and draw one out for the next devotion. If kids have a
say in what they are learning, they will be more apt to pay attention and
participate.
Tip 7: Incorporate real life lessons. While
reading from the Bible about a particular event and the lesson it provides,
show your family how you have applied this lesson to your life. Go around the
room and offer anyone who has had any related experiences to share with the
family. Make the devotion real.
Tip 8: Be respectful of the different age
groups. When planning a devotion, use different levels of discussion questions
and activities to suit each family member. You will still be learning the same
lesson, but on an age-appropriate scale.
Tip 9: Switch things up and let different
family members lead the devotions. It is a good idea for the parents to lead
the devotions a few times, so the kids can get familiar with how things run.
But, giving other family members a chance to lead the devotion will make them
more excited about what they are learning.
Tip 10: Not all devotions have to be totally
serious. Adding humor and laughter to the devotion will make better memories
for the family. But do make sure the Bible truth has gotten across to everyone
and that they understand the underlying seriousness of learning God's Word.
Best of all...have a blast! Devotions are a great way for
families to bond closer to each other, while getting closer to God.
This was first published on Suite101.com by Denise Oliveri .